5 Ways to Unleash Your Inner Beauty: Preparing For Your Boudoir Shoot
- Melonie Wright
- Nov 3
- 3 min read

Booked your boudoir shoot? H*** yeah. Those pre-shoot jitters kicking in? Don't worry. You're not alone.
If you're wondering what to wear and how to prepare, grab your favorite snack, get cozy and let's walk through it together.
Step 1: Look Inside for Inspiration
Start by asking yourself, "What kind of images do I want to walk away with?" Sweet, bright and bubbly? Dark, moody and seductive? Either way is fabulous. Have absolutely no idea? Don't worry. Defining your own style isn't always easy. We can find it together.
One thing I recommend is creating a secret Pinterest board and pinning ideas that speak to you. Even if you're not sure what that is, take a look. You may become inspired! Need some immediate outfit inspiration? Check out our Pinterest wardrobe board.

Step 2: Follow the Prep
The first thing you'll receive after booking is our Signature Prep Guide. It's jam-packed with links to guide you on what to wear and where to find it. We know you want to look and feel your best. The overview?
Start your preparation early, 1–2 months before your session. Book your self-care and beauty appointments, and start shopping for those perfect pieces. And, don't underestimate your closet — you might be surprised.
One week before, focus on your skin, nails, body hair, lips and don't skip the water! The day before and the morning of, shift your focus to your hair, face, nutrition, and breathing. Remember: I'll coach you through every pose and facial expression. All you have to do is show up.
Step 3: Embrace Your Body
Every body is unique. Every curve, wrinkle, scar, squiggle, fold, mark, extra/missing body part you may or may not feel self-conscious about is welcome here. This is a body-positive photography studio. That means you don't have to love every inch of your body to book a boudoir session. You just need to have the courage to trust the process.
My studio is your sexy, safe place–so, whether through a pose, a drape or perfect lighting, I know exactly how to make you feel and look your best. Your beauty is entirely yours, and as a body sensitive photography studio, we believe every body is imperfectly perfect. And, as long as you show up on the day of your session, you'll walk away in love with more images of yourself than you thought possible. That's our promise.
So, stop waiting for perfection. Your future self is waiting for you to say yes, finally.

Step 4: Wear What You Love
You might think the wardrobe makes the shoot, but honestly, it's not that crazy important. Some of the most stunning sessions happen with the simplest piece. Think, a single button-down shirt, an oversized sweater or even a sheet. The number one rule is that if you don't love it, leave it. Only bring what makes you feel amazing!
When you feel comfortable and confident, it shows. And remember, lingerie is not a must for boudoir. Get creative. Bring your personality and playfulness — that's the magic.
Step 5: Be Kind to Yourself
You are amazing! Give yourself time to rest, plan and pamper. Go to bed early, moisturize and set the mood with music that puts you in your supermodel zone. Overpacked? That's never a problem.
And, lastly, trust me. I know how to make every woman look good with killer poses, strategic lighting and perfect camera angles. All you need to do now is take a deep breath.
You've got this. You've already done the brave thing. You said yes to celebrating yourself. We've got the rest.
Ready to Shine?
Beauty is more than just your wardrobe. It's how you nurture your body, honor your mind and own your story. And, now that you know how to prepare and what to wear, all you have to do is show up and shine.
Ready to celebrate your journey? Book your session. The future you will absolutely love you for it.
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